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Tailoring BJJ class to help different types of kids

Different kids will have different needs, but that doesn't mean they will need different martial arts in their lives. By getting enough information from a child's parents and school, a jiu-jitsu teacher can work miracles. 

In a recent interview, Rickson Gracie talked about his method for changing kids' lives. It's useful stuff for parents and instructors seeking to effect real change, so read on. 

"So, based on the conceptual idea of helping the kids, and based on the... Because, for example, you have ten kids in the class. A good scenario would be for each of those kids, I send, to their parents, two forms: one for the parents to fill up, and the other form for the school teachers to fill up. With those forms in hand, I will see what Little John needs, from the parents' perspective and from the school perspective. So, he has ADD, he doesn't pay attention; or he's too aggressive with his little sister; or he doesn't do his chores at home, he doesn't put the trash out. Whatever the family has to complain, I will know; and whatever the school has to complain, I will know, or take note of. 

"So, based on this information, I will treat Little John different than I will treat Little Mark. Mark is a kid who doesn't need that kind of knowledge, but Little John needs 'Hey, Little John, how is your home? Have you talked with your sister today? You apologized yet?' So I will build up in terms of knowing how the student is and what he needs to develop: if it's patience, if it's calmness, if it's just being active, being responsive, understanding how to say 'no.' 

"So every kid has something to learn; and the jiu-jitsu environment is a powerful environment, because not only are you gonna be exposed to a kid who's able to express himself with almost no limitations, so you can read the kid in very clear lines."


gobarry Avatar
gobarry commented:

One thing I observe a lot are the blue belts and upper stripe white belts that have not yet learned you don’t crush the less experienced every roll. Dialing back dominance to allow better technical execution by the less skilled, allows them the space to grow and improve without discouraging them. Ironically, the ones that don’t or are slow to learn this aren’t as good as the ones that do. It should be taught openly that progressing includes demonstrating the wisdom of temperance.

April 20, 2022 05:59 PM
ronald kieltyka Avatar
ronald kieltyka replied:

Proper Jiu-Jitsu etiquette starts at the top.

April 21, 2022 05:43 AM
jdogdude78 Avatar
jdogdude78 commented:

Unfortunately, today's jiu jitsu tailors to the strong, tough, naturally athletic children. The ones who need it the most are turned off by that environment.

April 20, 2022 01:54 PM
ronald kieltyka Avatar
ronald kieltyka replied:

That is certainly not true at my dojo.

April 21, 2022 05:40 AM
jdogdude78 Avatar
jdogdude78 replied:

Thats awesome! We need more schools like yours around.

April 21, 2022 03:02 PM